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THE REALITY OF OUR MENTALITY
Stockholm Syndrome: An African American Perspective
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Have you ever looked at the shape that Black America is in today and tried to understand why we are still in the struggle, even though we have all the strength we need? What is stopping us from realizing the power we have? It’s not just money; we have over Four Billion dollars in disposable income that we spend annually, yet nothing has really changed.
I was attending a meeting where the speaker was talking about the Stockholm Syndrome as it pertained to Jews in the Holocaust. As he spoke, it suddenly struck me: how does this psychological phenomenon apply to me, to us as African Americans? The more I thought about it, the more I realized that perhaps some closer attention to this interesting piece of information because it may indeed be at least one of the major keys to our recovery and change as a people. The Stockholm Syndrome is a term given a phenomenon in human behavior which, as it turns out, has been documented since Biblical times, when
In the summer of 1973, four hostages were taken in a botched bank robbery at Kreditbanken in
· A person threatens to kill another and is perceived as having the capability to do so.
· The other cannot escape, so her or his life depends on the threatening person.
· The threatened person is isolated from outsiders so that the only other perspective available to her or him is that of the threatening person.
· The threatening person is perceived as showing some degree of kindness to the one being threatened.[1]
It takes only three to four days for the characteristic bond of the Stockholm syndrome to emerge when captor and captive are strangers. After that, research shows, the duration of captivity is no longer relevant. A strategy of trying to keep your captor happy in order to stay alive becomes an obsessive identification with the likes and dislikes of the captor which has the result of warping your own psyche in such a way that you come to sympathize with your tormenter. African American women had to endure the threat and the practice of sexual exploitation. There were no safeguards to protect them from being sexually stalked, harassed, or raped, or to be used as long-term concubines by masters and overseers. The abuse was widespread, as the men with authority took advantage of their situation. Even if a woman seemed agreeable to the situation, in reality she had no choice. Slave men, for their part, were often powerless to protect the women they loved. [1] I believe that by now you are beginning to see the direction in which I am heading and, even if you don’t, read on. The syndrome explains what happens in hostage-taking situations, but can also be used to understand the behavior of battered spouses, prostitutes, members of religious cults, Holocaust victims, even household pets, and most significant and relevant to this article, Americans of African descent.
Historical, sociological and governmental archives continue to ignore the parallels between the Jewish Holocaust and the enslavement of Africans in the
HISTORY VS. TECHNIQUE
Below are some highlights of how this process was and is used to psychologically master the captured persons. This is provided in the historical context of the experience of the enslaved African:
Alertness reduction
Step One is alertness reduction: The captors cause the nervous system to malfunction, making it difficult to distinguish between fantasy and reality. This can be accomplished in several ways. Poor diet is one, Inadequate sleep is another primary way to reduce alertness, especially when combined with long hours of work or intense physical activity, as well as being bombarded with intense and unique negative experiences. When you experience the slave ships in various museums throughout the country, you understand what it felt like to be chained, side by side, into a space for days – barely able to breathe,
much less move. The stench of death and excrement, the cries of fear and pain suffocate you, not knowing what is day or night, what is reality or your worst nightmare.
Programmed Confusion
Step Two is programmed confusion: You are mentally assaulted while your alertness is being reduced as in Step One. This is accomplished with a deluge of new information encounters or one-to-one processing, which usually amounts to the controller bombarding the individual with questions or results. During this phase of decognition, reality and illusion often merge and perverted logic is likely to be accepted. You are on a slave ship and you are made to witness violent acts that are shown as examples of what would happen if you were not compliant. You are degraded, naked, and shamed – and you haven’t even reached your destination yet, where more is to come…
Thought Stopping
Step Three is thought stopping: Techniques are used to cause the mind to go "flat.” These are altered-state-of-consciousness techniques that initially induce calmness by giving the mind something simple to deal with and focusing awareness. The continued use brings on a feeling of elation and eventually hallucination. The result is the reduction of thought and eventually, if used long enough, the cessation of all thought and withdrawal from everyone and everything except that which the controlling captors direct. The takeover is then complete. Upon arrival the head of a slave was shaved, removing the associated ties to tribal culture; you did not know who was a part of your tribal family without any identifiers. Slaves were systematically beaten, or otherwise brutally “trained” to understand that compliance within the boundaries is the only way to escape torture and pain that started when they were on the ships transporting You where verbally and physically reminded that you were not considered human, therefore had no right to independent thought and that your survival hinged upon your appearing to be placid, kind and doing just what you are told. The most effective technique in this step used upon Africans – and still prevalent today – is introducing uncertainty about identity. After stripping away all physical forms of identity, the person is attacked verbally and physically. So you can imagine the fear and tension this situation generates. Most coped with the stress by mentally going away. They literally go into an alpha state, which automatically makes them many times as suggestible as they normally are. And another loop of the downward spiral into conversion is successfully achieved. Remember the character in Color Purple and her behavior once she was released from prison? …Slaves were considered property, and they were property because they were black. Their status as property was enforced by violence -- actual or threatened. People, black and white, lived together within these parameters, and their lives together took many forms. Enslaved African Americans could never forget their status as property, no matter how well their owners treated them…The killing of a slave was almost never regarded as murder, and the rape of slave women was treated as a form of trespassing…Some slaves committed suicide or mutilated themselves to ruin their property value…[1] Other techniques include the introduction of jargon--new terms that have meaning only to those who participate. Unity among African Americans was destroyed during slavery times by evil dehumanizing tactics and terms. The word nigger was brutally imposed upon them by means of coercion that stripped African Americans of their identities As a result, African Americans have allowed it to become part of their souls thus transmitting it down through the generations. The incessant use of the word in our speech, our music, and our culture, keeps the evil spirit of racism alive…From the day or night, almost five hundred years ago, that the first African’s foot touched the soil of
Vicious language is also frequently used, purposely, to make captive uncomfortable or fearful. Yet another; there is no humor in the communications...at least until the participants are remade. Then, merry-making and humor are highly desirable as symbols of the new joy the participants have supposedly "found." Consider the "Happy Negro” image that most Anglos are more comfortable with, even today. We are considered potentially threatening when not socially “shufflin’ and grinnin”. Until I researched this article, I never understood why it bothered me when a spectator, standing near me during one of the first major golf tournaments Tiger Woods participated in, yelled in such an ominous tone “Smile, Tiger”, as he walked by on his way to the next hole. In his voice there were echoes of the ghosts of all of the old “massahs”, who expected a slave to grin and dance on cue, in order to avoid the lash of a whip.
Since it has been documented that this process only takes three to four days to emerge as the new psyche of an individual, imagine what irreparable psychological scars were created over generations of slavery in this country. Even though there was Irish slavery in this country, they knew that their experience had a specific ending that they could look toward; Africans did not. Even after their physical emancipation, there was no psychological deprogramming, no debriefing for freed African slaves. Former slaves were left stunned and shocked, to find their own way financially and physically, all the while not understanding that they were far from psychological freedom. There were, instead, new, more sinister forms of slavery generated -- then…and now.
Today, there are so many ways in which we are exposed to, indentured and/or enslaved -- socially, economically, and mentally – that they would be too numerous to identify and detail in one article. I am going to provide a few examples and challenge you to begin to identify others in your own life:
- Labels. We are a unique group people who allow ourselves to be defined by the labels on our clothes, shoes, purses, cars, etc. We are a unique group of people that spend over Four Billion dollars annually and have little to show for it. We think in the short term, fearing the day when it’s all taken away from us. If African Americans study their history, they will become more aware of how labels have been used to dehumanize them. It is time for them to collectively become critically conscious of the slave mentality they exercise within their culture. They did not come to this country as “niggers.” They must break this bondage, free themselves, and stand up against evil. [1] We are enslaved to defining ourselves and each other by the makeup and the model, fearing that who we are as individuals may not measure up. Sameness is more important; staying within the boundaries set for us is much safer. We allow others to define what success looks like for us, from the clothes we wear to the art we purchase. And who profits?
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Drugs and all that is drug-related. Drugs are believed to have been introduced into this country as a method of control of the African American communities (See http://www.friendsoffreedom.com/Writings/DupeOfDrugWar.html). Those who have not become a slave to the drug itself are slaves to the perception of drug sales being the solution to their exit from their plantation of poverty. However, this is pure myth, given that the majority of inmates -- 58.6% -- in prison are there on drug-related charges, most of them African American, most with harsher sentencing than their Anglo counterparts. If the ghetto drug dealers are the young capitalists who could, under better circumstances, become community leaders, the influx of cheap cocaine and the increasing poverty makes these possible ghetto leaders emerge faster as outlaws, the result being that they are eliminated. What better way to undermine your enemies? What better way to fund covert actions? And what better way to grandstand about crime, morality, and values? [1] Then there are the drug-related homicides, drive-by shootings that generate thought-stopping fear within a neighborhood. Ninety-one percent of those imprisoned for drugs are hooked again and back in the system within a year. And who profits?
- Recidivism is the return of a person to prison after being released on parole or by serving the full term of his or her sentence. Prisons and the business of incarceration are booming. As a result there is an increase in the business of privatization of prisons, so that they are run outside of the government. Prisons offer a low cost employment base for corporate contracting for anything from farming to inbound call centers. The inmates are paid a practically nothing, while the prison owners reap the primary profits. In addition, laws have been in the works, which would require prisoners to repay the cost of their incarceration. So upon release, a prisoner not only has to battle the task of finding a job that he or she is unlikely to be skilled to attain, there is the stigma of hiring an ex-convict and possibly a bill to repay to the government. An ex-convict is likely to be dumped right back onto the “plantation” from which he was removed, which in itself increases the likelihood of his or her return to prison (see below). The definition of a slave is a person who has no control of him or herself and is completely dominated by something or someone; a property of that which dominates. And who profits?
4. Gentrification, in basic terms, is how the city government allows your neighborhoods and their properties to become devalued by neighborhood crime, lack of upkeep, and lack of support for aging homeowners who purchased the homes during the “white flight” to the suburbs. This justifies the destruction of broken down public housing, formerly a tool for containing the minority poor in one area, which is torn down and replaced by condos, restaurants and townhomes that welcome the travel-weary suburb dweller back into the city. The minority poor is displaced, some lured into believing that the suburbs is the best place to go, not realizing what it will ultimately cost them financially or through isolation. Across the country, in every major city, business professionals and their families are quietly purchasing Uncle John or Auntie Nina’s old house for a fraction of its worth, fixing it up with low interest loans that the city offers from their city revitalization funds and moving back into the city. Your neighbors, meanwhile, are being lured into believing that moving out into the suburbs will somehow offer you a better life, because that was the truth – fifteen years ago, when it was not an option. African Americans are often the target victims of housing fraud, including “flipping”, renovation loans, etc. And who profits?
5. Intracultural Separatism. During slavery this was a strength that allowed the slaves to survive emotionally. “Enslaved African Americans also resisted by forming community within the plantation setting. This was a tremendous undertaking for people whose lives were ruled by domination and forced labor. Slaves married, had children, and worked hard to keep their families together. In their quarters they were able to let down the masks they had to wear for whites. There, black men, women, and children developed an underground culture through which they affirmed their humanity. They gathered in the evenings to tell stories, sing, and make secret plans. House servants would come down from the "big house" and give news of the master and mistress, or keep people laughing with their imitations of the whites. It was in their quarters that many enslaved people developed and passed down skills which allowed them to supplement their poor diet and inadequate medical care with hunting, fishing, gathering wild food, and herbal medicines. There, the adults taught their children how to hide their feelings to escape punishment and to be skeptical of anything a white person said.[1] Today, that strength has become a weakness. We have allowed ourselves to believe that using our culture to segregate ourselves in an ever-shrinking global community is of benefit. Further, what we pass on and among ourselves is what is dictated to us as our labels. Note, for example how in the entertainment industry, when dollars are waved in front of us, we are again the puppets of the masters; we embrace the given perception that we are a group of violent, oversexed people (see music videos). Women are willing to bump and grind in front of the cameras – doing what most would never consider doing if the stage were instead a topless bar. Then there are the comedic roles, the only place where we are allowed to be the majority of primary characters, where we again fall into the stereotypical traps that have been defined for us. Some of us believe that we should embrace our cultural differences by showing that we are “down with the people” but are we really down with the people – ourselves – or with the labels that are provided and we have chosen to embrace? I remember vividly an experience when I passed a group of men on the street and one of them spoke and I responded. He became enraged, because my response wasn’t “black enough” for him. But who made the rule that correct English is “speaking white”? I really don’t believe that it was us. Why? Because I have found that those I deal with in corporations and organizations, who feel compelled to tell me that I am so “articulate,” (their code for “speaking white”) as though it was a rarity among people of color, and at the same time view me as an enemy that had somehow infiltrated the ranks. I believe we should embrace that within our culture which truly defines us as a race, and learn to discern between what is cultural and what is stereotype by which others wish to define us. One more thing, when it comes to what is cultural and what is stereotypical: what’s in a name? A lot. We have chosen to make up names – especially for our daughters – in the name of what we perceive as culture. What we have done is create a new stereotype, with which our children are defined. As one gentleman from
6. Intraracism. The enemy lies within and the enemy is us. In the days of conscious physical slavery in this country, there were the house slaves and the field slaves – a deliberate psychological class distinction. House slaves were programmed to believe that their loyalty included the betrayal of any exhibiting the potential of having an original thought or might potentially create a “problem”. Ask yourself why – even today – Anglos get nervous, even angry when three or more of their minority counterparts are talking together and they don’t know what they are talking about. They want to know what’s going on. If you are asked about the conversation and don’t disclose the subject matter, they become offended. You become the enemy. We are selfish about our piece of the corporate, social or economic pie, afraid to share because we think that there might not be enough, not realizing that we have the power to bake a whole new pie. So we “shuffle and grin” at the “massah”, and sell our own down the river in fear that we will somehow be reclaimed and sent back to the plantation. We ignore the screams of those who realize they have been caught and turn up the volume on Marvin Gaye’s CD. We allow them to eat our young by allowing them to set the standards for how we are treated, rather than setting the standards for ourselves. We have more African American elected officials now than we’ve ever had, yet none have effectively challenged the quality of public education our children are receiving. None have gone to battle against the national rate that our children drop out of high school and end up incarcerated. We are afraid of losing all that we have gained, so we are reluctant to reach back over the wall to help others over. We sit and wait expectantly for “them” to come and solve our problems, not understanding that we must control our own destiny and need not wait for permission to do so. We still wait for the forty acres and a mule. And who profits?
A paradigm is a system of belief or a way of viewing the world…To become a Free Sovereign Individual and do justice to yourself, you need to find out who you are. Most of us, including many who yearn for freedom, suffer from what might be called ‘slave mentality.’ Our personal philosophy and psychology, in important respects, may be that of a slave rather than that of a free sovereign. To get a better understanding of the sovereign individual paradigm, compare the free-wild horse to the broken-domesticated horse. A horse is born free and wild. Try and ride a free-wild horse and it will do its utmost to throw you off. A free-wild horse doesn't like to be broken - enslaved - ridden by a master. Once the cowboy has broken the free-wild horse, it becomes a broken-domesticated-obedient horse. Now the cowboy is the master of the horse. Once a horse has been broken it timidly accepts being saddled and bridled. The saddle is placed on the horse's back and held in place by a strong strap around the horse's body. Attached to the saddle are stirrups for the rider's feet. The rider's boots may have spurs used to inflict pain on the horse in order to make it run faster. The rider may also use a horsewhip. Around the head of the horse a bridle is strapped. Part of the bridle is a metal bit that passes horizontally through the horse's mouth. The reins are attached to the ends of the bit and are used to steer the horse and make it slow down and stop. Pain can be inflicted on the horse by yanking the reins or pulling on them with a seesaw motion. The above paraphernalia are used to make it easy for a rider to control his or her horse - difficult for the horse to disobey its rider. The horse is the slave of the cowboy. The cowboy rides the horse. The horse works for the cowboy. The cowboy owns the horse. The horse obeys the cowboy. Disobedience may be punished. The horse that fights tooth and hoof to prevent you from putting on bridle and saddle may be sold as horsemeat. Horses are born free and wild. Horses are inherently free. They are naturally free. But they can be broken, domesticated, enslaved…One Afrikaans word for native Africans is "naturel" ("native"); another is "skepsel" ("creature"). The most derogatory is "kaffer" ("infidel"). These words are no longer acceptable. My grandfather was a Senator and Chairman of the "Naturelle-Sake Kommissie" ("Native Affairs Commission"). That is the equivalent of the Chairman of a Congressional Committee that oversees the "Bureau of Indian Affairs.” My grandfather was considered very wise and knew exactly what had to be done about the "Swart Gevaar" ("Black Danger"). My grandmother taught black children the three Rs and religion in her own farm school. Her mission was to "civilize the savages.” One day a black maid licked one of my grandmother's spoons. My grandmother gave the maid a tongue lashing for "contaminating a white spoon" - then gave the spoon to the maid to keep, because it was "no longer fit for white use!” When I was about seventeen I got engaged in a conversation with a black man. Suddenly, as if hit by a sledgehammer, I realized that I was talking to a Human Being! Up to that time I had unconsciously assumed that blacks were "inferior creatures" - kind of sub-human…Steve Biko was the founder of the "Black Consciousness" Movement in South Africa. Biko recognized that the biggest problem was that blacks in their own consciousness regarded themselves as "inferior creatures." The culture we grew up in - the language we used - planted the notion in the minds of whites that they were "superior beings," and in the minds of blacks that they were "inferior creatures.” Practically all whites and blacks were subconsciously enculturated in this manner. Biko recognized this phenomenon and advocated that blacks had to free their consciousness from the "inferior-creature" shackles. Biko became world-famous and was visited by people like Bobby Kennedy. Biko was also the greatest threat to white government in
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